
It’s that time of the year!!
I write this six weeks out from Christmas, knowing that the WIRED magazine hits your mailbox prior to Christmas!
Most of rural New Zealand finds the pressure to have everything done by the statutory holiday period increasing as we get closer to the break. Then there’s the frustration around the lack of trading hours during the festive season. Along with that is the increasing FOMO (fear of missing out) as others celebrate their breaks and holidays on social media, as we may find ourselves committed.
The thing is to plan and contextualise each issue or thought. Plan as far out as possible to prioritise the tasks that must be done prior to the break, and try to achieve those within your control to the best of your ability. Remember the old adage, “Will it really matter if it doesn’t get done?” And just like you need to get extra milk or bread for the break – what do you need to organise prior to the holiday period to allow your business to function?
Making lists and ticking things off gets them out of your mind and allows for a level of preparedness that can lessen the anxiety levels you may feel!
The most important part of ‘the Season’ is giving. Often, we confuse giving with the demands others may have. “Dad, I want a new cell phone for Christmas”, or “Can I have some new Lululemon shorts?” (look them up, they are the trendy clothes teenage girls want) can probably be heard across the nation right about now.
But for me, this is hollow giving. Find someone who really will appreciate the effort you make to help them out. Cook a neighbour a meal, drop some unwanted clothes off at the Red Cross, or volunteer in some way. Take the Lululemon wearers with you, or involve them in an act of kindness. There is a lot of loneliness and isolation around at Christmas, so reach out to those who may just be in need of company. The wave you put out is the wave you will get back in! The best thing you can do for your own mental wellbeing is to give to someone else. Believe me, it works…
A trap we can fall into without realising it is to compare our lives with the social media lives of others. When you’re hard at work while others play, it can leave you feeling disappointed.
We can’t live anyone else’s life; we don’t know how they got to do what it is they are doing, just as they don’t know why we are doing what it is we are doing. Some people would give anything to sit on the side of a hill with their family and a picnic, enjoying the view and connections that are being made. The simple things in life are often the most valuable. Not the boat, the bach, or an overseas trip – they are a cost, and often a commitment rather than an asset.
So, this ‘Season’ achieve what’s achievable and available, prioritise the important things, and plan not only the work that needs to be done, but the time to connect with those in need or may need you!
Recently FCANZ had a Best Practice Day here on our property in Ashburton. The camaraderie and conversations, the learning and sharing of knowledge and the bunch of good buggers I got to share the day with was awesome, and I recommend to those contractors that attend these days to bring a mate. Especially a fencing contractor, member or not. It’s a great way to celebrate what we do here, and to involve those on the fringes of the fencing world. A big thank you to the industry partners who give so much to these days as well.
FCANZ was also well represented at the Ashburton A&P Show with the fencing module at the Clash of the Colleges. Board member Scott Heasley and former Board member Lindsay Hayman put the 180+ students through their paces, with many showing more interest after the event.
Recently, the Whatever with Wiggy Charitable Trust purchased a large gazebo to use at events and to support other organisations that may need a covered area. Some of the money donated at this year’s conference went towards this gazebo, and so the FCANZ logo is proudly displayed on the roof apron for all to see. Again, I say thank you to the many who have supported our work, and I’m proud to celebrate that support anywhere we can!
Enjoy your Christmas in all ways possible – stand close to your mates and loved ones, and remember the good times with those who may share the same memories. Know that we are often luckier than the social media posts we see, and reach out to someone who might just want to…. Lean on a Gate and Talk to a Mate!
Published in WIRED issue 79/December 2025 by Fencing Contractors Association NZ
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